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25种让世界更和谐的吵架方法
2009-10-26 15:45
人生充满了争吵，由于我们的修养不够，争吵很容易发展成冲突。如何让争吵获得有益的结果呢？今天特别为大家隆重奉献25种让世界更和谐的吵架方法：
Please try to understand my point of view. 请理解我的观点。 Wait, can I take that back? 等一下，我能收回我说的话吗？ You don’t have to solve this — it helps me just to talk to you. 我不用帮我解决这个问题。和你聊一下就对我有帮助。 This is important to me. Please listen. 这对我很重要。请仔细听。 I overreacted. 我反应过激了。 I see you’re in a tough position. 我知道你的处境艰难。 I can see my part in this. 这个问题，我有错。 I hadn’t thought of it that way before. 我以前没有这样想。 I could be wrong. 我可能是错的。 Let’s agree to disagree on that. 让我们接受我们的不同观点。 This isn’t just your problem; it’s our problem. 这不只是你的问题。这是我们的问题。 I’m feeling unappreciated 我感觉没有收到重视。 We’re getting off the subject. I know I need to listen more. 我知道，我应该多倾听。 You have convinced me. 你说服我了。 Let’s take a break for a few minutes. 让我们停一会。 If you can remember to do this, it’s extremely effective—especially if you’re having a big fight. After a break, it’s almost impossible to go back to yelling. Please keep talking to me. I realize it's not your fault. 我意识到这不是你的错 That came out all wrong. 我表达错了。 I see how I contributed to the problem. 我明白我引起了这个问题。 What are we really fighting about?" How can I make things better? 我怎样才能把事情变得更好呢？ We can solve this if we work together. 如果我们携手合作，我们就可以解决这个问题。, I’m sorry. 对不起。 I love you. 我爱你。 最后两句最简单但是最有力量！ |
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